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Blog mission statement for 2014

Hello pickles.

I've been thinking since New Year about what I want to do on/for/with the blog this year. Because of my mental health I don't want to put too much pressure in by giving myself direct targets as such. I want to gently grow the blog, but only at the rate that I can get to know everyone as they come along. I don't want numbers for the sake of them.

I've come up with a kind of mission statement about things to do with the blog this year.

1. Do a nail of the day and face of the day post once a week. Because I've been in months of Fibromyalgia flare up I've neglected the beauty side of things, but I'm coming out of it now (phew!) and also the light is getting better so it means I can do more things. All the things!

2. Get through my enormous 'to swatch' pile, which is really shameful in size, and show you the goodies.

3. Get some umbrella type lights for taking better blog photos. We have dodgy light for about half the year in the UK so it's well worth making an investment so I can bring better photos to the blog all year round.

4. Do more outfit photos outside, because they look 1000 times better than ones taken indoors.

5. Get a new camera with auto focus on the video so I can do regular videos for the blog. (It sounds really petty but at the moment because our camera doesn't have auto focus on the video I have to get hubs to set me up recording or else the whole thing is out of focus. It's a massive ball ache because he's never ready when I am, meh.) I REALLY want to do videos to talk about Love EVERY Body (and for other things like make up.) I want to lay out my ideas for the monthly assignments on video each month as it's so much easier to impart meanings to words when you can see the hand gestures and facial expressions to go with them. Words on a screen can only do so much.

I need to raise almost £600 for the camera bundle I want (this massive bundle is as much money as some places are charging for the camera alone!) and will be thinking about how I can raise money towards it, be it offering blog advertising or taking on more sponsored posts (as long as they're in keeping with the blog.) Orrrr winning the lotto, or offering 100 of you sexual favours if you give me a donation of £6 each, hahaha. (They'll be very small sexual favours for £6!) Or selling my kidney. Does anyone want a kidney?! No? :)

Seriously, any suggestions for ways to raise money legally and quickly would be wonderful. I want to avoid getting it on credit, but am dying to get cracking with videos to explain the thoughts behind Love EVERY Body every month. It's my birthday in 3 months so if I'm lucky I'll get some money to put towards a new camera. Every little helps, as they say!

6. Take on more guest posts, especially from the Love EVERY Body participants family.

7. Spread the body positivity message far and wide, even if I have to stand on a chair and yell. ;)

8. Meet more of my fellow bloggers and blog readers, too.

9. I want to dig out buried treasure from the back of my wardrobe and chests of drawers to make 'new' outfits out of old, with ideas about how to inject some life into those older items. It's silly to have a ton of clothes and not wear them because they're not new, yet I do feel a pressure (possibly self made) to have loads of shiny new things. I also want to accessorise more. I'm really quite rubbish at accessorising considering I have tons of jewellery, hats, scarves & gloves.

10. It sounds really cheesy, but I want my blog to be the kind of place where someone can come when they're having a shit day and find a bit of solace. You know me, I'm just a big ol' hippy who wants everyone to feel the luuuurve, maaan. ;) I know some of the people doing Love EVERY Body have started following each other's blogs and I'm so happy about them making friends with each other like that. All I had in mind when I started LEB was trying to make people happier with themselves just as they are, and seeing a little community coming together is wonderful. It happens rarely, but when I see one of my readers talking to another reader in the comments on my blog I have a little 'YES!!!' moment and I like to think if someone was having a crappy day and said so in a comment on my blog* that other people might jump in and offer them a virtual hug as well. I used to go to a pub which had a sign outside which said something about there being no strangers inside, just friends you haven't yet met and if we can cultivate that vibe on my blog, I think I'll be as proud as punch.

*By all means, if you're having a crappy day feel free to make contact - say so a blog comment, even if it has sod all to do with my post. Or email me, as some of you already do.

Ooh, I've just had another idea.

11. If you have a problem you can't sort out or need answers to (I sound like the A-Team!) you could email me and I could make it a blog post (keeping your name totally anonymous of course) and post them like an 'agony aunt' format so myself and other readers can come up with suggestions to help. Sometimes I think it helps just to put a problem out there, to be heard. You might need tips about what to wear for an upcoming event, advice on how to deal with critical family members/colleagues, or anything else at all. If the questions come, then I'll post them and we can all offer advice/support. Let me know what you think.

What are your plans for this year, if you blog?

Readers, what do you want out of 2014? What do you think about my mission statement? What kind of posts/videos would to like me to do? And do you know anyone who wants to buy a kidney?! ;)

Thanks for reading.

Upcoming films I want to treat my eyeballs to

Hiya!

Happy Friday.

I had an outfit post planned for today but I'm hormonal and absolutely hate all the photos I've taken this week (please tell me it's not just me) so I've decided to talk about some new films and TV shows I'd like to see.

I rarely switch off totally - I'm usually doing a few things at a time - but when I'm at the cinema or watching a DVD it immerses me completely and that's a welcome break from life stuff. As such, I'm never happier than when watching a film. (I still can't bring myself to say 'movie' without feeling like a pretentious twat!)

I want to see Jack Ryan Shadow Recruit as the trailer alludes to a bit of skullduggery going on, and I'm a fan of twists.  Plus Chris Pine. His face, I like that shit. This is out in the UK on Jan 24th.


I want to see I, Frankenstein, as I'm a big geek and love fantasy and sci fi. This stars Aaron Eckhart, Bill Nighy, Jai Courtney - who has been slowly doing well for himself in US cinema after starring in Spartacus: Blood and Sand - and Miranda Otto, who played Eowyn in The Two Towers and Return of the King. It's released on 29th Jan in the UK.



I really want to see Non-Stop. I love Liam Neeson and this looks like Taken, but on a plane. It pleases me to see older action heroes, especially believable ones and Liam Neeson still looks like he can kick arse. Action films are one of my favourite genres. It's out in the US and UK on Feb 28th.


The trailer for Home Front looks really good. This one is already out, allegedly, although I haven't seen a single trailer or even a mention of it anywhere. I'm a fan of The Statham. I'm not sure if James Franco can carry off a role as a baddie as I think he has a face for comedy (seeing him in Pineapple Express, yanno) but we shall see. This one was written and produced by Sylvester Stallone.


I'm also looking forward to finding out more about my #1 homeslice Jason Momoa's self-penned and directed Road to Paloma, which I believe is debuting at indie film festivals in 2014. From IMDB: Road To Paloma is the beautiful journey of two bikers traveling across America's vast west. While Native American Wolf (Jason Momoa) is being pursued by the FBI for having taken the law into his own hands, when his mother was raped and killed on their reservation he crosses paths with Cash (Robert Mollohan), a down and out musician who is coping with the end of his marriage. An unlikely friendship develops, as they ride together towards the Teton mountain range, where Wolf will spread his mothers ashes. The teaser doesn't give a lot away, but who cares? Momoa!


I'm also looking forward to this show. It's called The Tomorrow People, it's a remake of a British sci-fi show (which I've never heard of) and it has Luke Mitchell in it, who played Romeo in Home and Away. Boy done good getting into a Hollywood role so soon after leaving Aus. It started on the 8th Jan on E4 at 9pm so I'll catch a repeat hopefully and see if it's any good.


It might be a bit young for me - I'm not sure if it's aimed at the yoof, but we shall see!

What are you looking forward to this year in the cinema?

Thanks for reading.

Oh no! Not another one of those posts!

Hello lovelies.


Yes, it's yet another friggin' New Year aims post!

1. I aim to carry on trying to think the best of myself and other people, because the world is so much nicer with a happy slant on it.

HOW - Note any self-critical thoughts or judgmental thoughts about others, pull myself up on them and choose to look for positives. There are ALWAYS positives.

2. I aim to be more present in all that I do. My attention span isn't good for a couple of reasons. Fibromyalgia makes me feel like I have a swarm of angry bees in my head at the best of times (which makes keeping track of my thoughts a problem - I often lose track halfway through my own sentences.) I don't make things any easier for myself for always having a laptop or mobile phone within arms reach. Add noise from the tv into that and I'm a lost cause.

HOW - I need to switch off and commit myself to one thing at a time. Perhaps in future when I'm blogging I'll close all the other tabs on my laptop and turn my phone off. Everything I do deserves my full attention. I don't want to be 'halfway there' in my interactions with people any more, because my loved ones deserve better, and so do I.

3. I aim to find a solution for the clutter I seem to attract wherever I go. The flat is clean but somewhat untidy with occasional bursts of tidiness (usually when someone is coming round and I don't want them to think I'm a lazy moo!)

HOW - I either need to find more energy (ha ha HA - that's the laugh of a very jaded Spoonie), whip the Mr into shape (he really makes life difficult with his man-chuck-everything-on-floor habits), or get a cleaner in for an hour a week to do the things that knacker me (like hoovering and mopping) so I can concentrate on de-cluttering. ORRRRR I could stop buying things then there's less crap to deal with in the first place. Radical thought, that. ;)

4. This is the most important aim of all. The last 6 months of 2013 were spent ill in one way or another and this has carried over to 2014. Right now I feel like I'm in the worst condition of my life. My breathing has been awful for the last couple of months. To put it into perspective - my step dad has COPD and had a chest infection at Christmas and he commented on how bad my breathing was! I was as out of breath as he was. I know I have asthma, but holy shitballs!

HOW - I haven't done yoga in a long time because of the exhaustion from Fibromyalgia and CFS/ME (compounded by the hideous insomnia of recent times) but somehow I need to get past that barrier and start doing it again to try to claw back some condition, even if it's only 5 minutes a day. I know for a lot of people with CFS/ME exercise can be dangerous and harmful but I need to give it a shot. Having got to the point where my quality of life is the crappiest it's ever been, I need to make a last ditch attempt. With every new period of worsening health there's always a panic about 'What new thing will this take away from me?!' and that's true now. Things have got so bad I have to see if there's anything I can do to help myself, before I 'give in' to being even more incapacitated than before. Imagine having to breathe through a straw and that's what it's like when your lungs are playing up - everything slows down when there's not enough air getting in. I guess this is my last stand to see if I can do anything to help myself. If I end up in a bloody wheelchair or bedridden I want to know I did everything I could to try to avoid it.

I actually feel quite positive despite this post (ha!) and am sure this year is going to be a cracker. Two of my friends just got engaged, another two are getting married this year, and I'm going to be 40 in April (fat, fabulous and 40, dahhhlings!) I can't wait to see how the rest of the year pans out!

What are you looking forward to this year? Do you have any aims you want to share?

Thanks for reading.

P.S. If you were one of the bloggers whose badges I had on my page, I now have a tab under my header called 'Fave blogs'. All the buttons and links are in there. I may put them back in my sidebar at some point - we shall see!